A Very Bear-y Tea Party

 Last weekend the himekaji discord server had our first virtual tea party meetup!


The theme this time was "A Very Bear-y Tea Party" with the concept being bears and plaid! It was so fun seeing the outfits that everyone came up with!

@_frillish and I twinning at the tea party!

Didi not only organized the whole event, but she also helped me pick out my outfit, and we did matching hairstyles together. It was so nice getting a fresh perspective on my wardrobe, and it was fun getting to pick a coordinate out of her wardrobe as well! When I arrived at the tea party we realized that I was twinning with Cheerie totally by coincidence! Here we're both wearing the Liz Lisa Ribbon Bear print. It's a cute pink design with bears and teapots on it!

My outfit for the tea party was actually head to toe Liz Lisa other than my socks 

For snacks I made cucumber sandwiches, easy Pillsbury biscuits, and I bought some tea and madeleines to eat along with it. It was super delicious!

We'll be having another tea party next month, I'm really looking forward to it!

Until next time!


2020, You've Overstayed Your Welcome

Happy new years everyone! 2020 was pretty rough for everyone and while the new year hasn't brought an end to any of our challenges, it still feels good to close the book on that one.

In times like these it's hard to find things to be thankful for, and honestly I don't think anyone needs to. When things suck sometimes the healthiest thing is it just allow things to suck and give yourself space to feel bad about it. Still, I sat down like I do every year to try and reflect on what small happiness I managed to find this year, and I can honestly say that fashion is one of the things that kept me hanging on. My wardrobe really grew this year and in the last 6 months it really feels like my style snapped into place!


I also started konmari-ing my apartment and despite my lack of blog updates I've actually come quite far! I still have some work to do and a lot of blogs to write about it, but my apartment already feels so much more like a home now than it did when I first started.

We fostered a cat who was so cute and playful and I sobbed when he inevitably got adopted 


We also ate so many delicious home cooked meals!


As far as next year goes, I'm still really not sure what the future holds, but for the next 3 months I really want to focus on self care and taking better care of myself physically and emotionally. I also really enjoyed the slow paced feeling of long form blogging, so I hope you'll see more of me on here this year! I started an email list where I'll be sending out blog posts directly to your inbox. You can sign up in the sidebar. Please sign up if you're interested!

I hope that everyone is staying safe and warm during the holidays. Here's to 2021 sucking a little less!